Women Blazing Trails

Living or working with a narcissist can be an emotional rollercoaster, but it doesn’t have to be. Dealing with a narcissist can be challenging, to say the least, and it’s not uncommon to feel at a loss when it comes to knowing what to say or do. However, there are certain things that you can say that will hit the narcissist where it hurts the most. Knowing these statements will empower you to stand up for yourself and take back control of any situation. Here are 15 epic things to say to a narcissist that will shut them up.

I’m Not Interested in Playing Your Games

Narcissists love to manipulate people, and they do so with mind games. They are notorious gaslighters and will make you feel like you’re the dumb/bad one here. Remember, you’re not. This statement makes it clear that you won’t play into their games.

I Have No Desire to Engage in Your Drama

Narcissists thrive on drama and chaos. Refusing to engage with them demonstrates your refusal to participate in their destructive behavior. This will irritate them and make them go crazy. When they start up with their drama, just walk away.

I Don’t Need or Want Your Approval

Narcissists believe they are superior to everyone else. They believe that everyone needs their approval, even just to exist. This statement reminds them that you don’t need their validation or approval to be confident in who you are.

You’re Not as Important as You Think You Are

Want to really irritate a narcissist? This is a powerful shutdown statement that will enrage them. Narcissists believe they are the center of the universe. This statement quickly snaps them back to reality.

I’m Not Going to Tolerate Your Disrespect

Narcissists often behave in a disrespectful manner towards others. They thrive on talking down to people because it makes them feel powerful and that they are better than you. Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries reminds them that you won’t tolerate their bad behavior.

Your Behavior is Unacceptable

Sometimes, they need to be told they are acting like a child. Narcissists may not realize that their behavior is harmful. This statement helps them understand that their actions are not okay, whether or not they like it. Chances are, they won’t but that’s their problem, not yours.

I Don’t Owe You Anything

Narcissists often feel entitled to special treatment from others. This statement puts them in their place by setting clear boundaries. Letting them know that you don’t owe them anything or that you are not required to bow down to them will set them off.

You Don’t Intimidate Me

Narcissists can be intimidating in their presence, and they love intimidating people. It makes them feel big and powerful. Standing up for yourself and being confident shows them that you won’t be intimidated by their behavior.

I’m Not Interested in Your Pity Party

Narcissists often play the victim to gain sympathy from others. They love to get attention this way and have others play into their misery. This phrase shows them that you won’t be manipulated into their pity party.

Your Opinion of Me Doesn’t Matter

Narcissists love to criticize others, often with the intention of bringing them down. They are very opinionated and will do what they can to get others to agree with/follow them. Saying this to them lets them know that the negative opinions that they have of you won’t define how you see yourself.

Your Need For Attention is Exhausting

Narcissists crave attention and validation from others. Reminding them that their constant need for attention can be exhausting for those around them might give them some food for thought, even though it will definitely upset them at first.

I Can See Right Through Your Facade

Narcissists often project a false image of themselves. They like to make people believe they are something they really aren’t. Larger than life, more successful than the average Joe, smarter than the guy next door. When you say this to them, it lets them know that you see beyond their false facade.

You Don’t Have the Power to Take Away My Joy

Narcissists may try to bring others down, in fact, they love to do that, especially if they feel threatened or jealous. Telling them that you won’t let them sabotage your happiness, nor do they have the power to do so, truly makes them feel small and powerless.

I’m Done With This Conversation

Narcissists can be exhausting to talk to. They can go on and on forever if you give them enough attention and don’t speak up. Just tell them you are done with their ridiculous conversation and walk away. That’ll be enough to let them know you’re bored with them/tired of them or whatever. Just done.

Conclusion

When dealing with a narcissist, it’s essential to remember that you have the power to take back control of any situation. By using the statements outlined above, you can set boundaries, stand up for yourself, and take the power away from the narcissist. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to tolerate their bad behavior or engage in their manipulative games. By staying confident, strong, and assertive, you can successfully interact with a narcissist without losing yourself in the process. Remember always to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being, and never let a narcissist control your life.