You know, I can remember being 25 or 30 and thinking old was anything over 60. But here I am, at 62 (and a half), NOT feeling old at all! Oh sure, my body sometimes says we’re old, but my mind still thinks we’re 25 and that’s ok.
I used to think a lot of weird things about ‘old people’. In fact, there were an awful lot of aging myths I believed. I used to think that after 60, it was all downhill and you just sat in a rocking chair with all your smelly little grandchildren and read stories.
Here are 10 aging myths that most people still believe, and I’m here to tell you, it’s all a lie.
10 aging myths that can go to hell
Before we begin, there may be swearing, you’ve been warned. The 80s rocker chick in me won’t die and we still drop eff bombs and stuff. Sorry, def not sorry.
I’ve only listed 10 aging myths, but I’m sure there are a million more. Feel free to add yours to the comment section. I’d love to see which ones I missed.
🟡You’re Past Your Prime
Past my what? You’re kidding, right? Ok, look, I may not be able to ride the mechanical bull at the local watering hole anymore, but I’m not dead! Just last month, I climbed one of the highest mountains in Guatemala, so there’s that.
You can watch that vid here. It’s super cool!!
But what does that even mean, past your prime? And who decided what MY prime was anyway? Such bullshit.
🟡 Dress Your Age
Dafuk does that mean? Dress my age? Enlighten me, what do people ‘my age’ wear? While I’m not into miniskirts and high heels anymore, many women over 60 still are, and there ain’t nothing wrong with that.
As we get older, our wardrobes are no longer used to impress people. We wear what we want because we can and we love it. Age-appropriate or not.
I know you’re gonna love this article about things women over 50 should never wear!!
🟡Sex Is Over
Well, for me, for now, it is, simply because I can’t find anyone to engage with. But trust me when I tell you, after 60, sex is far from over.
For some, it’s just a little ‘different’. We need lubes, we need pills, but we certainly don’t need desire. That never went away.
Now, if I can just find a willing participant!
🟡You’re Not Attractive Anymore
No, you’re not attractive – you’re super fly fucking hot and sexy now!! That silver hair, those laugh lines, the way you hold your head up high and ooze confidence like a queen.
Ya, this is one of the stupidest aging myths ever. Puh-leeze!!
Men are hot and women are even hotter!
🟡 You Stop Trying New Things After 60
Oh, hell no!! As a matter of fact, many of us are just getting started trying new things. Starting a YouTube channel, travelling solo, starting an online business, and learning a new language. The sky is the limit.
I’m currently working on my own digital products business and can’t wait to launch it!!! (You should join the newsletter so you know when that happens!)
Being over 60 isn’t stopping us from doing anything except maybe sitting around and feeling sorry for ourselves. There’s a life to live and we aim to live it to the fullest!
🟡 You’ll Be Lonely and Boring
Ok, wait. Boring, no. Lonely? At times.
I have to admit that this is one of the aging myths that isn’t entirely wrong, but in my defence, I am working on the lonely part. I’m going out more and connecting with people more.
But many people over 60 are NOT lonely or boring. They are totally loving their life that is now filled with peace, freedom and immense joy.
🟡 It’s Hard to Grasp Technology
No. No, it’s not. I’m on the computer all day, every day, learning new things, taking courses, it never stops, and I’m loving every minute of it. I do know, however, that for some people it can be a little hard, but they don’t let that stop them.
We’re here for all the technology, and the best part about it all is that we get to pick and choose what we want to learn and what we couldn’t care less about.
It’s not hard for us, it just might take us a wee bit longer, is all.
🟡 Your Body Is Old and Weak
Yes, my body is getting old. My skin is crepey, not creepy. I have saggy boobies, my face is falling and there are age spots and wrinkles where there used to be soft supple skin and a glowing youthful face.
So?
My body is definitely not weak. I hit the gym 5 days a week. Lift weights like a champ and feel stronger than ever. You only get old and weak if you sit around and do nothing.
We are not doing that!
🟡You Become Invisible
Well, only if you want to be. I’m far from invisible. Many women complain that they feel insignificant and invisible after 60, and while I believe part of that is true, I think a lot of that has to do with how you put yourself out to the world.
Or do you?
We have stories, wisdom, confidence, experience and great charm. It’s impossible to be invisible with all that! Use your voice, be seen and heard.
But please don’t be a Karen. Not like that.
🟡It’s All Downhill From Here
I thought that. Shame on me. They said, after 60, it’s all downhill. Nothing could be further from the truth. This bitch is just getting started.
I have more zest for life now than I ever did before. I’m excited for new things, for tomorrow, for growth, learning and living.
None of this ‘downhill from here’ bullshit. Not for this girl.
final thoughts on aging myths
I used to be afraid of aging. Afraid of losing my youth, my energy, my fun life, but now that I’m in my 60s, I see just how wonderful life really is, and I’m grateful for each and every day I get.
You can choose to live life to the fullest or lie down and wait to die. Please don’t choose the latter. ❤️
xo iva xo
